MANY OF US HAVE AT SOME POINT WONDERED IF TRANSGENDER DATING IS FOR US. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO STILL HAVEN’T SOLVED THIS DILEMMA, HERE ARE SOME SIGNS THAT WILL MAKE THINGS EASIER FOR YOU.
Let’s not sugarcoat it, but instead, let’s just acknowledge the cold, hard truth – dating is not as simple as many will try to convince you. There are so many rules, do’s, don’ts, things you should make sure you do and those you should avoid by all means. All in all, it’s not an easy game to play, especially if you’re considering giving transsexual dating a go.
Whether you’re about to hit the local gay bar or you’re a thinking of trying transgender dating sites but you aren’t quite sure if this is what you really need, here are some signs that will tell you for certain if TS dating is right up your alley.
1. YOU’RE GAY OR BISEXUAL
Before you jump to any conclusion, we just wanted to make one thing clear – being gay or bi isn’t a telltale sign that you’re also into transgender dating. Although there is a popular misconception that those who are attracted to transpeople are either openly or secretly gay or bisexual, there’s isn’t any real proof of this.
However, in most cases, those who are attracted to transmen and transwomen are, for the most part, bisexual or gay. Once again, there isn’t a real connection here, but nobody can deny the statistics.
2. YOU AREN’T AFRAID OF PREJUDICE
Whether we like it or not, there’s still a lot of hate and fear towards transsexuals and those who date them. People shun what they don’t understand and will openly admit to it, but if you don’t really care about this, you’re probably fit right into transgender dating.
Being in society’s crosshairs can be really exhausting both emotionally and psychologically. Many people point fingers and even openly throw hateful comments at folk who stray from the norm. So, if you don’t have any interest in what other people think or say, dating a transsexual shouldn’t be a problem for you.
3. YOU’RE NO STRANGER TO FETISHES
It’s no secret that everyone has different sexual preferences, and while most of us fall under more average categories, there are those among us who have really strong sexual fetishes and are not afraid to show them.
If you’ve ever watched porn (which you most likely did) and you’ve noticed that you get more aroused by freaky stuff than by regular pornography, you’re probably among the people who have no problem with chicks with d**** and other varieties of transsexual adult content.
4. YOU LIKE TO EXPERIMENT IN BED
Finally, here’s a sign that you probably haven’t looked at in this way, but it might mean that you’re into transgender. If you’re one of those who like to try new things in the bedroom, then we’ve got some good news for you.
Being sexually active is one thing, but frequently experimenting in your sexual life is a whole different story. Every once in a while, you’re up for trying things you haven’t done before – anal sex, swinging, BDSM, threesomes, orgies, etc. If this sounds familiar to you, then you won’t feel strange if you find yourself in bed with a TS person.